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Excellence Forge

Why the Best Never Feel Satisfied (And Shouldn't)

Everyone tells you to be grateful for what you have. To find contentment. To appreciate the journey. But the people who achieve lasting greatness share a trait most call unhealthy: they're never satisfied. And that's exactly why they succeed.

Why the Best Never Feel Satisfied (And Shouldn't)
Excellence Mastery

Most Success Is Just Avoiding Obvious Mistakes

Everyone's chasing brilliance while tripping over obvious errors. The uncomfortable truth about success isn't that you need to be smarter. You need to stop being dumb.

Most Success Is Just Avoiding Obvious Mistakes
Mastery Excellence

Build Habits for Your Worst Day, Not Your Best

You've been designing habits for the version of you that exists after good sleep, full of motivation, in ideal conditions. That version shows up maybe 20% of the time. Here's how to build for the other 80%.

Build Habits for Your Worst Day, Not Your Best
Mastery Forge

Good Intentions Are Why Most Dreams Die

Everyone celebrates good intentions. 'At least their heart was in the right place.' But intentions aren't neutral. They're a sophisticated form of self-deception that lets you feel virtuous about dreams you're not actually building.

Good Intentions Are Why Most Dreams Die
Forge Excellence

The Couples Who Fight Are the Couples Who Last

Happy couples don't fight. That's the story we tell ourselves. Then we watch peaceful marriages end without warning. The truth? Antifragile bonds are forged through navigated conflict, not polished harmony.

The Couples Who Fight Are the Couples Who Last
Mastery Excellence

You're Working Hard. On the Wrong Things.

The myth of 'work on your weaknesses' has created generations of well-rounded mediocrity. What if the thing that comes easily to you is exactly where your leverage lives?

You're Working Hard. On the Wrong Things.
Leadership Excellence

If Money Is Why They Stay, Money Is Why They'll Leave.

Pay them well and they'll stay. Pay them more and they'll work harder. It sounds logical until you watch your highest-paid people leave for less money. The myth of compensation-driven loyalty is destroying teams.

If Money Is Why They Stay, Money Is Why They'll Leave.
Excellence Leadership

Character Isn't What You Post. It's What You Practice.

Social media has convinced us that visible virtue is real virtue. Aristotle knew better. Character is the pattern of what you do when no one's watching, not the highlight reel you curate for strangers.

Character Isn't What You Post. It's What You Practice.
Leadership Excellence

When You're Dying, Who Will You Wish You'd Become?

Nobody eulogizes your revenue growth. The metrics that feel urgent today will be irrelevant the moment you're gone. The people you developed will carry your impact for decades.

When You're Dying, Who Will You Wish You'd Become?
Mastery Forge

You're Not Getting Ready. You're Hiding.

Preparation is the most sophisticated form of procrastination. It feels productive. It looks responsible. And it keeps you exactly where you are.

You're Not Getting Ready. You're Hiding.
Forge Philosophy

Your Backup Plan Is Why Your Main Plan Keeps Failing

You tell yourself the backup plan is smart, responsible, prudent. The Stoics knew better. Prohairesis, moral choice, is singular by nature. Every escape route you build is a promise to yourself that when things get hard enough, you'll quit.

Your Backup Plan Is Why Your Main Plan Keeps Failing
Excellence

Why Do Smart People Overcomplicate Everything?

The Greeks understood something we've forgotten, true wisdom reveals itself through simplicity, not complexity. Intelligence is finding the simple truth, not creating elaborate frameworks.

Why Do Smart People Overcomplicate Everything?
Leadership Excellence

Stop Babying Your Team. Start Building Them.

The ancient concept of paideia required both challenge and care. High expectations without support breaks people. High support without expectations keeps them small. Real leadership integrates both.

Stop Babying Your Team. Start Building Them.
Forge

Your Life Right Now Is Just Your Last 90 Days Playing Out

Your fitness, your bank account, your relationships, your opportunities right now aren't revealing your identity. They're showing you what you've been doing for the past 30-90 days. That's not philosophy. That's physics.

Your Life Right Now Is Just Your Last 90 Days Playing Out
Excellence

Stop Chasing Happiness. It's Making You Miserable.

The more directly you pursue happiness, the more it evades you. Kant knew what we forgot: happiness only arrives as a byproduct of living virtuously, not as a target to optimize for.

Stop Chasing Happiness. It's Making You Miserable.
Forge Excellence

Good Vibes Only Will Keep You Weak Forever

Good vibes only doesn't protect you from negativity. It protects you from growth. Every time you positive-think your way past difficult emotions, you're training yourself to be weaker.

Good Vibes Only Will Keep You Weak Forever
Forge Philosophy

Your Self-Care Routine Is Making You Weaker

Modern self-care culture produces people who need more support to handle less challenge. Rest is only restorative when preceded by genuine exertion. Without the depletion, there's nothing to restore.

Your Self-Care Routine Is Making You Weaker
Mastery

You're Not Less Talented. You're Less Focused.

What looks like exceptional talent is usually exceptional attention. The people crushing it aren't more gifted, they've just built the character discipline to ignore everything except what matters most.

You're Not Less Talented. You're Less Focused.
Leadership Excellence

Why Does Tolerating One Person's Mediocrity Destroy Your Entire Team?

Mediocrity spreads like wildfire once you signal it's acceptable. Leaders who tolerate good enough from one person send a message to everyone that standards are negotiable. Excellence demands eliminating compromises at the source before they become cultural norms.

Why Does Tolerating One Person's Mediocrity Destroy Your Entire Team?
Excellence Mastery

Stop Following Your Passion. Start Building Excellence.

Passion is self-focused and fleeting. Excellence through service is other-focused and enduring. The Greeks never told anyone to follow their passion. They built character through craft. Here's why that matters for your work.

Stop Following Your Passion. Start Building Excellence.
Excellence Leadership

Akrasia: Why You Sabotage What You Know Is Right

You know exactly what you should do. You've known for months. So why aren't you doing it? The ancient Greeks had a word for this: akrasia, acting against your better judgment. And they understood it's the ultimate killer of excellence.

Akrasia: Why You Sabotage What You Know Is Right
Mastery Forge

Why Real Learning Only Happens Under Pressure

Real competence emerges when comfort dies and stakes are real. The professionals who thrive in crisis weren't trained in safe environments, they were forged under pressure.

Why Real Learning Only Happens Under Pressure
Mastery Forge

Stop Chasing Flow. Build It.

Flow doesn't show up when you beg it. It shows up when you remove what blocks it. The people who hit flow states most aren't gifted, they're disciplined about building the right conditions.

Stop Chasing Flow. Build It.
Excellence

Why Greatness Demands Imbalance

True greatness cannot be evenly distributed across all areas of life simultaneously. Excellence requires strategic imbalance, knowing when and where to concentrate your full intensity, and having the wisdom to let other areas temporarily receive less attention.

Why Greatness Demands Imbalance
Excellence

The Reflection Stage: Where Wisdom Begins and Excuses Die

Prosoche, the Stoic practice of disciplined reflection—transforms raw experience into actionable wisdom. Part 7 of The Greatness Flywheel series shows how systematic reflection accelerates excellence by preventing repeated mistakes and compounding learning.

The Reflection Stage: Where Wisdom Begins and Excuses Die
Mastery Excellence

The Craft Stage: When Skill Becomes Second Nature (Techne)

You don't have a knowledge problem. You have a craft problem. Most people understand excellence intellectually but lack the embodied competence to execute it consistently. Techne bridges the gap between knowing and doing.

The Craft Stage: When Skill Becomes Second Nature (Techne)
Mastery Excellence

The Information Architecture: Curating Input for Greatness

Most people consume information like they eat at a buffet, grabbing everything that looks appealing without considering nutrition or purpose. Then they wonder why their thinking is sluggish and their decisions are poor. Greatness requires intentional information architecture.

The Information Architecture: Curating Input for Greatness
Forge Excellence

The Discipline Myth: Why Willpower Always Fails

Most people think discipline means forcing yourself to do things you don't want to do. This fundamental myth keeps people trapped in cycles of failure and self-recrimination.

The Discipline Myth: Why Willpower Always Fails
Excellence Leadership

The Philosopher King: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Leadership Integration

Plato's most radical leadership idea wasn't about power or position, it was about character. The philosopher king represents the ultimate integration of wisdom, excellence, courage, and transformation. Here's how to stop managing systems and start transforming people.

The Philosopher King: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Leadership Integration
Excellence Forge Leadership

Metanoia: The Transformation Mindset for Leaders

The Greeks understood that lasting change requires complete transformation of mind, heart, and character. Most organizational change fails because leaders try to change everything except themselves. Here's the ancient solution.

Metanoia: The Transformation Mindset for Leaders
Excellence

The Excellence Audit: Measuring What Matters

Most people track what's easy to measure rather than what actually drives excellence. Learn how to audit your metrics and ensure you're measuring character development, not just performance theater.

The Excellence Audit: Measuring What Matters
Excellence Leadership

Andreia: The Courage to Lead Through Uncertainty

The Greeks understood that courage isn't the absence of fear, it's the commitment to excellence despite uncertainty. This ancient virtue transforms how you lead through risk, change, and the unknown.

Andreia: The Courage to Lead Through Uncertainty
Leadership Excellence

The Stretch Paradox: Why Safety Enables Greater Challenge

The greatest challenges require the greatest safety. Great leaders understand this paradox: the more psychological safety you create, the more difficult challenges your team will tackle. Here's the framework that makes it work.

The Stretch Paradox: Why Safety Enables Greater Challenge
Excellence Forge

The Validation Trap: Why Seeking Approval Kills Excellence

The most liberating realization: those people you're trying to win over aren't worth winning over. Energy spent seeking approval is energy not spent building excellence. Time to break free from the validation trap.

The Validation Trap: Why Seeking Approval Kills Excellence
Excellence Mastery

The Disney Churro Effect: Why Context Kills Quality Judgment

Your 5-star vacation restaurant would get 2 stars at home. Context isn't an excuse for mediocrity, it's a test of your standards. The Disney Churro Effect is killing your judgment, and you don't even know it's happening.

The Disney Churro Effect: Why Context Kills Quality Judgment
Forge Leadership

The Freedom Paradox: Why Real Independence Is Terrifying

The social media mythology of entrepreneurship sells a comfortable lie: that anyone can bet on themselves and become a millionaire working a few hours per week. The reality is far more terrifying, and far more rewarding for those with the courage to accept it.

The Freedom Paradox: Why Real Independence Is Terrifying
Philosophy Forge Leadership

Phronesis: The Lost Art of Practical Wisdom

The ancient Greeks had a word for the leadership skill we desperately need today: phronesis. It's not about having all the answers, it's about acting wisely when you don't.

Phronesis: The Lost Art of Practical Wisdom
Forge Excellence

The FSD Paradox: Why We Resist the Future We Actually Want

I'm a motorsports enthusiast who loves manual transmissions. So why do I hate driving rental cars now? The rental car experience taught me something uncomfortable about human nature, and why we resist the very technologies that would improve our lives.

The FSD Paradox: Why We Resist the Future We Actually Want
Forge Leadership

Andreia: Courage in the Age of Fear

The Greeks had a word for the kind of courage we desperately need today: andreia. It's not about being fearless, it's about being fear-full and acting anyway.

Andreia: Courage in the Age of Fear
Philosophy Leadership

Between Trapezes: Navigating AI Uncertainty with Ancient Wisdom

In the moment between letting go of one trapeze and grasping the next, there's a space where everything depends on trust, timing, and practical wisdom. For leaders navigating AI transformation, this moment isn't a crisis, it's where excellence is forged.

Between Trapezes: Navigating AI Uncertainty with Ancient Wisdom
Excellence Forge

The Long Way Back

The mountain had other plans. What started as a simple run became a journey back to who I've always been—buried under survival, responsibility, and the slow drift of adulthood.

The Long Way Back
Excellence Forge

Stop Chasing Balance. Start Chasing the Edge.

Everyone wants greatness until they realize what it demands. The edge isn't found in comfort, it's in the obsession, discipline, and relentless focus that transforms potential into reality.

Stop Chasing Balance. Start Chasing the Edge.
Forge Excellence

The Return Is the Resistance

It's not about the run or the miles. It's about returning to the place where your resolve gets sharpened, your personal forge where growth happens through resistance.

The Return Is the Resistance
Forge Leadership

The Fire That Forges Me

Pain is not punishment. It's preparation. Whether you're a fighter or a leader, how you respond to resistance defines your growth and impact on others.

The Fire That Forges Me
Leadership Excellence

The Silent Burden: Fueling Leadership's Lonely Flame

In the quiet hours when decisions weigh heaviest, leadership can feel like a solitary journey. But it's in these moments that both leaders and their teams can transform pressure into power. Here's how to keep the flame alive.

The Silent Burden: Fueling Leadership's Lonely Flame
Leadership Excellence

Protect Your Spark: Beat the Idea Assassins

Your best ideas are vulnerable to creativity hit jobs. Learn to guard your spark, select the right team, and keep innovation flowing despite the critics.

Protect Your Spark: Beat the Idea Assassins
Leadership Excellence

Speed Without Direction is Wasted Energy

Speed isn't the goal—winning is. Learn how the fastest teams avoid wasted motion by solving the right problem before they execute.

Speed Without Direction is Wasted Energy
Philosophy Leadership

Arete & Eudaimonia: The Cornerstone Philosophy of Excellence

The path to true excellence isn't found in quick fixes or surface, level achievements. It's discovered through the ancient wisdom of arete and eudaimonia, principles that have guided the greatest minds for over 2,000 years.

Arete & Eudaimonia: The Cornerstone Philosophy of Excellence
Excellence Mastery

ChatGPT vs Human Tutors: The Future of Learning

Discover how ChatGPT is changing the landscape of education and tutoring, while understanding the unique value that human tutors bring to the learning experience.

ChatGPT vs Human Tutors: The Future of Learning
Excellence Leadership

Boost Your Productivity with Three Daily Habits

Discover three game-changing daily habits that can significantly boost your productivity and help you achieve more in both your professional and personal life.

Boost Your Productivity with Three Daily Habits
Mastery Leadership

Three Aspects of Product Management You Need to Master

Product managers need to be proficient in three key areas: technical skills, data analysis, and empathy for customers. Neglecting any one of these areas can lead to difficulties in successfully managing a product. However, a well-rounded product manager who excels in all three areas can drive success by delivering innovative products that meet customer needs, are technically sound, and supported by data-driven decision-making.

Three Aspects of Product Management You Need to Master
Mastery Forge

Balance is a Great Way to Be Mediocre

Explore why the pursuit of perfect balance might be holding you back, and learn how embracing strategic imbalance can lead to extraordinary results.

Balance is a Great Way to Be Mediocre

Greatness Only Competes with Itself

Learn why the path to greatness lies in competing with yourself rather than others, and how this mindset can transform your personal and professional growth.

Growth Leadership
Greatness Only Competes with Itself
Excellence Mastery

Finding Time for Innovation

Discover practical approaches to balance daily responsibilities with innovation initiatives, ensuring your organization stays competitive and forward-thinking.

Finding Time for Innovation
Excellence

Syncing Work and Personal Calendars

Discover practical solutions for maintaining a balanced schedule by effectively syncing your work and personal calendars.

Syncing Work and Personal Calendars
Excellence Forge

Ten Biographies Worth Reading

Explore a curated selection of biographies that provide powerful lessons in leadership, resilience, and success through the lives of remarkable individuals.

Ten Biographies Worth Reading
Forge Excellence

Push Mind Past Body Reality

Discover how to train your mind to overcome physical barriers and unlock your true potential through mental conditioning.

Push Mind Past Body Reality
Forge Excellence

Pushing Too Hard Too Early

Understand the risks of pushing too hard too early, and discover how to pace yourself for long-term success.

Pushing Too Hard Too Early
Forge Mastery

Mind Stops Before the Body Does

Discover why your mind often gives up before your body does, and how to overcome these mental barriers to achieve more.

Mind Stops Before the Body Does
Forge Excellence

Embracing the Suck

Discover how accepting and working through challenging situations can lead to significant personal and professional growth.

Embracing the Suck
Excellence Mastery

10 Questions To Ask Ourselves Every Week to Continue Improving

Are you looking to make self-improvements in your life? These 10 questions can help guide your reflection and introspection to better understand your values, strengths, weaknesses, and goals. From identifying what led to your biggest achievements to examining your responses to challenges, these questions can help you better understand yourself and your path towards personal growth. Take a moment to ask yourself these questions and discover what you can learn about yourself and your journey to self-improvement.

10 Questions To Ask Ourselves Every Week to Continue Improving
Excellence Leadership

7 Tips For Getting Value Out of Networking Events

If you are an introvert like me the last thing you want to do is spend time "networking". Even if you are an extrovert your time is valuable and just mingling isn't going to cut the mustard if you want to get any kind of meaningful results. So what is the best strategy when attending an event with intention of networking?

7 Tips For Getting Value Out of Networking Events
Excellence Leadership

6 Tips for Scaling A Business

Building an idea is hard. Turning it into a business is even harder. Scaling that business is another level of hard. This is a list of tips to help you get there.

6 Tips for Scaling A Business
Forge Excellence

Seeking Courage

I struggle with what level of disclosure to give in public forums, because vulnerability is a hard. I don't care for writing and know a path to getting better at something is to do a lot of it. At least that is the excuse I hide behind when it comes to sharing more freely. A while back during a long period of seeking self awareness it became apparent that I didn't really believe in myself very much. Other people believe in me. I believe I am able to get results, but I haven't been able to really believe in me. I was smacked in the face on this topic looking in the mirror and seeing myself over 250 pounds and utterly out of shape and control.

Seeking Courage
Excellence Leadership

Asking For Help

What about asking for help is so difficult? What expectations do we put on ourselves and others that could be avoided if only we asked for help more frequently?

Asking For Help
Excellence Leadership

Agile Open Southwest Recap

Open Spaces always tend to amaze me. They really are the right people in the right place at the right time. When we kicked off Agile Open Southwest, I was a little bit nervous about what might come out. As always, I was left absolutely amazed. It was great seeing old friends and meeting new ones. Finding everyone was a different place on their journey yet still able to be find common ground and learn from one another.

Agile Open Southwest Recap
Excellence Leadership

Don't Make Your Retrospectives Confusing

If explaining an activity in a retrospective takes more than a minute or two it probably isn't very effective. Don't fall into the trap of making things too complex. Activities shouldn't be complicated they should be fluid. Giving participants too many options and being unclear with instructions makes it difficult to fluid with sharing thoughts.

Don't Make Your Retrospectives Confusing
Leadership Excellence

Retrospectives. When Facilitating. Facilitate. Don't Participate.

As a ScrumMaster when you are "running" a retrospective it is easy to fall into the trap of actively participating in it. It is extremely difficult to do this well (if not impossible), because your role should be as a facilitator not a participant. The minute you start participating you are no longer neutral and severely impact your ability to effectively facilitate.

Retrospectives. When Facilitating. Facilitate. Don't Participate.

Estimates Are Evil!

A young man was bitten by a pitbull when he was 10. Ever since then every time he has noticed a pitbull it is barking, snarling and threatening to him. He is now 35. He believes that pitbull's are a vicious breed and that they should not be family pets.

Code Growth Leadership
Estimates Are Evil!
Mastery Leadership

Should Senior Developers Pair Program?

I am a proponent of pairing (not just for programming). Anytime I introduce it to a new team I get a number of objections. The most prominent is that pairing slows me down (because I am so awesome and everyone else sucks so bad).

Should Senior Developers Pair Program?
Excellence Leadership

What Makes Gangplank Magical?

Gangplank is a community of creators that fuses family life, civic life, creating and earning a living into this unique blend where anything is possible. The support and tenderness offered is counter balanced by a gruff and forceful exterior making participation daunting to most.

What Makes Gangplank Magical?
Excellence Leadership

Transform a Relationship, Be Fully Present

People need to be understood that they matter. We are wired to belong. It doesn't matter if it is your spouse, child, employee or coworker every relationship you wish to maintain requires your attention. Most people consider attention to be measured in time. Time is in short supply and high demand in our connected and fast paced world.

Transform a Relationship, Be Fully Present

Observations, What Is In a Name?

Names are funny. Tone and inflection can make all the difference. Most people don't even bother correcting people when their name is said incorrectly. Close enough is good enough. However, sometimes people get their name so wrong they don't even go by their own name.

Growth Community Leadership
Observations, What Is In a Name?
Mastery Excellence

Hierarchy of Reading

Abraham Maslow made the concept of hierarchies of progression in systems popular via his work on a hierarchy of needs. Here is a theory about the hierarchy of different types of readers.

Hierarchy of Reading
Leadership Excellence

Call to Volunteer at Arizona State Parks

I love Arizona. It's natural resources are one of it's greatest assets. I have been encouraging people to get out and ExploreAZ. If you didn't know our State Parks have become seriously under funded and need our help. So how can you help?

Call to Volunteer at Arizona State Parks
Excellence Forge

Top 10 Ways To Become More Resilient

Resilience refers to the ability of a person to effectively cope with and recover from adversity or stress. This concept has been studied in psychology and neuroscience, and various strategies and techniques have been developed to build resilience, such as mindfulness, cognitive reframing, and social support. Building resilience can help individuals better handle life's greatest challenges and maintain their mental and emotional well-being. Here are ten ways to increase your resiliency.

Top 10 Ways To Become More Resilient
Excellence Leadership

Essence of Humanity is Helping Other People Feel Safe

In Andre Agassi's Open he shows the authentic and human side of himself. He talks about giving a friend named Frankie the money he needs to put his children through school. He reflects on it in the following way:

Essence of Humanity is Helping Other People Feel Safe
Excellence Leadership

Reminding Yourself Where You Are Going

I generally keep voice memos or written journals around as outlets for my thoughts when I am not regularly able to connect with people to share what is on my mind. I try to purge them into a digital format fairly quickly to prevent clutter. I don't recall why I recorded this segment, but I ran across it today and it made me smile.

Reminding Yourself Where You Are Going

Explore AZ : August 19th – 21st : Payson, AZ

So back in 2009 I talked about starting ExploreAZ tweetups. I did get the RV out one time in 2010 shortly after that post to Catalina State Park outside of Tucson. After putting some money into the RV and getting it operational again considering starting this back up. So I have booked two trips.

Community Growth Leadership
Explore AZ : August 19th – 21st : Payson, AZ
Excellence Leadership

Rituals Help Us Form Emotional Connections

Whatever our exact ritual, the social act of eating together is important; it reunites us with our tribe. Transforming us from solitary beings to members of a group.

Rituals Help Us Form Emotional Connections
Forge Excellence

The Effects of Shifting or Resetting on Society

If you are listening. A lot of people are talking about a "new norm", a "reset" or a "shift". Largely this discussion is around economics and growing concerns of debt. In reality it is about a lot more than that.

The Effects of Shifting or Resetting on Society
Excellence Leadership

Sometimes Team Perspective Is Needed

The benefit about working on a high performing team is that everyone expects excellence. There is always a drive that it could be better. Nail a perfect 10 and then ask how it could be an 11.

Sometimes Team Perspective Is Needed
Leadership Excellence

Four Principles of Collaborative Consumption

The basis of the 'Sharing Economy' operates on principles. How are you seeing them applied in the world around you? What can you learn from them? How are you applying them?

Four Principles of Collaborative Consumption
Excellence Leadership

Great Service Requires Constant Attention

I am a fan of great service. When I see it exemplified I try to share it. For example, QuikTrip does a great job #winning. Another company that has always impressed me is Discount Tire. They always greet me right away. They fix my tires for free when repairable. They give me a free air check when my tires are low. All of this even on tires not purchased from them. WOW! They never give me problems when I need tires rotated or tires replaced under warranty that I did purchase from them.

Great Service Requires Constant Attention

You Can't Handle the Truth

A woman and her son were entering the Subway as my daughter and I were getting out of the car. My daughter uttered, "Hoochie Mama" under her breath. I chastised her for being inappropriate. Her response to me was, "Well she is." Granted the woman was probably in her late forties, had on 5 inch heels, booty shorts and next to nothing for a top with her adolescent son in tote. Sadly, my daughter was right.

Growth Leadership Community
You Can't Handle the Truth
Excellence Mastery

Opening Lines From Great Minds

It is no secret, I love books. One of my favorite things to read is autobiographies. I enjoy them because I love to hear the authors reflect back on how they got started. A glimpse of what made them who they became.

Opening Lines From Great Minds