You Optimized Away Everything Worth Doing
Anyone can walk over and drop a golf ball in the hole. Golf exists because you agreed to use a stick from far away. Remove that rule and you did not make golf efficient. You deleted golf. Most of us are running the same move on our lives: treating every obstacle as a defect, removing the ones that made an activity worth doing, and then wondering why the free time feels like a void. Bernard Suits called the alternative the lusory attitude. The Greeks called the space it fills schole. Here is how to tell which obstacles to remove and which ones to keep.