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Breaking Through: How Resistance Shapes Your Transformation
Every breakthrough begins with a breakdown. Resistance isn't blocking your transformation, it's forging it.
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The Forge of Transformation
The forge is where raw metal becomes refined steel. In life, difficulty and resistance are not obstacles to avoid—they are the very forces that transform us. The forge teaches us to embrace struggle, build resilience, and find meaning in the challenges that shape our character.
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Stop Chasing Balance. Start Chasing the Edge.
Everyone wants greatness until they realize what it demands. The edge isn't found in comfort, it's in the obsession, discipline, and relentless focus that transforms potential into reality.
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The Discipline of Arete: Trust the Work, Not the Moment
Frustration comes when we judge ourselves by a single moment. But true growth—true excellence—comes from trusting the work, not the moment.
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Climbing Through: Leadership Forged in the Struggle
Most teams are trained to dodge the mess—great leaders dive in. True leadership is built in the climb, not at the summit.
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Discipline Creates Obsession
Why discipline is the forge that creates what people call passion and obsession, not the opposite
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Your Integrity Isn't Holding You Back. Your Fear Is Hiding Behind It.
There's a story people tell themselves about why they haven't succeeded. It sounds like integrity. It's actually fear dressed in virtue's clothing.
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Most People Need a Crisis to Try Their Hardest. That's a Character Flaw.
Crisis unlocks extraordinary performance. But needing crisis to access your best means your best isn't really yours. It belongs to whatever circumstances happen to arrive.
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AI Is Making Life Easier. That Might Be the Worst Thing That Ever Happened to Us.
Three miles from anything, my calf seized. No Uber. No shortcut. Just pain and the choice to keep moving. AI is removing that choice from everything. And that might be destroying us.
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Comfort Killed More Dreams Than Failure Ever Did
Everyone fears failure. Almost nobody fears comfort. The ancients understood why that's backwards. Comfort doesn't protect dreams. It suffocates them slowly while you're too numb to notice.
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"Discipline Is for Losers"? The Obsession You're Jealous Of Started There
The person calling discipline 'for losers' is watching masters and missing the decades of discipline underneath. What looks like obsession is hexis. The discipline came first.
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What If Your 'Personal Best' Is Actually Your Personal Belief?
Everyone treats their personal best as an objective measurement. But what if it's actually a prophecy? What if the limit you keep hitting is the limit you keep expecting to hit?
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Why the Best Never Feel Satisfied (And Shouldn't)
Everyone tells you to be grateful for what you have. To find contentment. To appreciate the journey. But the people who achieve lasting greatness share a trait most call unhealthy: they're never satisfied. And that's exactly why they succeed.
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Why Your Parents Were Right: Nobody Ever Said Life Was Fair
Want in one hand and shit in the other. See which gets fuller faster. Working-class America didn't read the Stoics. They lived them.
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Why Voluntary Struggle Prepares You for Involuntary Battles
The conditions you train in are the conditions you're prepared for. Every voluntary struggle is a deposit against the involuntary battles life doesn't schedule.
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The Best Thing That Ever Happened to You Was Hitting Bottom
I thought I might need the ER after my first CrossFit workout. Turns out I'd just forgotten what building muscle felt like. That's how bad it had gotten. It was the best thing that ever happened to me.
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Why Progress Feels Like Nothing Until It Feels Like Everything
Progress doesn't arrive gradually. It accumulates in silence, then announces itself all at once.
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The Fastest Path to Opportunity Is Through the Work Nobody Wants
Everyone's competing for the spotlight. Meanwhile, opportunity waits in the tasks everyone avoids. The dirty work doorway isn't just a path to success. It's the only path that isn't crowded.
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Good Intentions Are Why Most Dreams Die
Everyone celebrates good intentions. 'At least their heart was in the right place.' But intentions aren't neutral. They're a sophisticated form of self-deception that lets you feel virtuous about dreams you're not actually building.
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The Most Dangerous Thing You Can Do Is Become Excellent
Your pursuit of excellence isn't neutral. It's an act of rebellion against every force that profits from your weakness, distraction, and mediocrity.
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The Couples Who Fight Are the Couples Who Last
Happy couples don't fight. That's the story we tell ourselves. Then we watch peaceful marriages end without warning. The truth? Antifragile bonds are forged through navigated conflict, not polished harmony.
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You're Not Getting Ready. You're Hiding.
Preparation is the most sophisticated form of procrastination. It feels productive. It looks responsible. And it keeps you exactly where you are.
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Your Backup Plan Is Why Your Main Plan Keeps Failing
You tell yourself the backup plan is smart, responsible, prudent. The Stoics knew better. Prohairesis, moral choice, is singular by nature. Every escape route you build is a promise to yourself that when things get hard enough, you'll quit.
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Hard Work Stops Some People. Uncertainty Stops Everyone Else.
Andy Weir posted chapters of The Martian to his blog for 10 years. 3,000 readers. No validation. No proof it mattered. Then the breakthrough. The separator isn't talent or work ethic, it's tolerance for uncertainty.
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Stop Asking Why This Is Happening. Start Asking What It's Teaching.
The ancient Greeks understood something we've forgotten—every difficulty is training when you ask the right question. The shift from 'why me?' to 'what's this teaching?' changes everything.
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You're Better Off Missing Moon Shots Than Hitting Layups
You think success is about the win. It's actually about what the attempt makes you become. The goals you miss build more character than the ones you hit.
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You Don't Get Fewer Problems. You Get Better Ones.
Your problems aren't proof you're failing. They're proof of where you've climbed. Each level of success doesn't reduce difficulty, it upgrades it.
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Your Life Right Now Is Just Your Last 90 Days Playing Out
Your fitness, your bank account, your relationships, your opportunities right now aren't revealing your identity. They're showing you what you've been doing for the past 30-90 days. That's not philosophy. That's physics.
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Forgiveness Isn't About Them. It's the Most Selfish Thing You Can Do.
Every minute you spend resenting someone is energy you're not using to build your life. The Stoics knew what we forgot: forgiveness releases you from the prison, not them from consequences.
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Getting Consumed by Your Work Isn't the Problem. What It's Making You Into Is.
Work-life balance won't save you from being consumed. Everything significant consumes you. The question isn't whether work will consume you, but what you're becoming through that consumption. Choose the fire that forges you.
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Good Vibes Only Will Keep You Weak Forever
Good vibes only doesn't protect you from negativity. It protects you from growth. Every time you positive-think your way past difficult emotions, you're training yourself to be weaker.
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Philosophy
Your Self-Care Routine Is Making You Weaker
Modern self-care culture produces people who need more support to handle less challenge. Rest is only restorative when preceded by genuine exertion. Without the depletion, there's nothing to restore.
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Stop Waiting for Flow - Start Training It Like Every Other Skill
You can spend another year waiting for flow to happen, or you can spend the next 12 weeks training it like the ancient Greeks did, systematically, progressively, relentlessly.
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Why Trying Harder Makes You Worse (And How to Let Excellence Flow)
You built the conditions. You trained your attention. Now stop trying so hard. The excellence you're forcing toward shows up when you allow it to emerge.
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Manage Attention, Not Hours: How to Do Work That Matters
You don't need more hours, you need cleaner attention. When you defend attention, deep work shows up and the needle finally moves.
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Why Real Learning Only Happens Under Pressure
Real competence emerges when comfort dies and stakes are real. The professionals who thrive in crisis weren't trained in safe environments, they were forged under pressure.
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Stop Chasing Flow. Build It.
Flow doesn't show up when you beg it. It shows up when you remove what blocks it. The people who hit flow states most aren't gifted, they're disciplined about building the right conditions.
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The Organizational Excellence Delusion
Most companies aren't consciously choosing mediocrity. They're living in a complete fantasy about their own capabilities while demanding breakthrough results from infrastructure designed for average performance.
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The Internal Locus Revolution: Why Everything Is On You (And That's Your Advantage)
Most people spend their lives as victims of circumstances they created. Here's why accepting that you're both the source and solution to your problems is the ultimate advantage.
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The Architecture of Human AI Collaboration
Most leaders add AI tools to human workflows. The breakthrough is designing collaboration architecture where human judgment and AI capability compound each other from the ground up.
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The Madness of Excellence: Why Every Exceptional Person Gets Called Crazy
The madness of excellence has two faces: seeing what others can't and doing what others won't. Both will get you called crazy. Both are required for greatness.
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AI First: The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything
The fundamental mindset architecture that separates AI leaders from AI laggards. Three core shifts with practical implementation frameworks grounded in ancient wisdom.
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The False Path Trap: Why Clear Roads to Lesser Goals Kill Excellence
I chose government safety over startup fire, and it didn't just stall my career, it eroded my soul. The trap of 'practical' choices that kill excellence.
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The Curiosity Lie: Why Your Questions Keep You Comfortable
Real curiosity isn't about asking smart questions, it's about pursuing the brutal ones you've been avoiding because they might change everything.
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The Unlimited Courage Question: The Single Test That Cuts Through All Self-Deception
Most people disguise cowardice as prudence. Here's the single question that cuts through all self-deception and reveals what you're really running from.
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The Discipline Myth: Why Willpower Always Fails
Most people think discipline means forcing yourself to do things you don't want to do. This fundamental myth keeps people trapped in cycles of failure and self-recrimination.
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The Brutal Honesty Test: Do You Really Want What You Say You Want?
Most people torture themselves pursuing goals they don't actually want. The framework for distinguishing authentic desire from sophisticated self-torture.
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The Magic Pill Trap: Why True Endurance, in Running, Leadership, and Life, Can't Be Hacked
Trail running exposes the magic pill trap poisoning all growth: Want endurance? Embrace sustained discomfort, no hacks allowed.
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Metanoia: The Transformation Mindset for Leaders
The Greeks understood that lasting change requires complete transformation of mind, heart, and character. Most organizational change fails because leaders try to change everything except themselves. Here's the ancient solution.
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The Completion Paradox: Why Finishing Matters More Than Starting
You don't have a motivation problem. You have a completion problem. Every unfinished project is evidence that you can't trust yourself to follow through. Here's how to build the character that finishes what it starts.
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The Self-Knowledge Trap: Stop Using 'I'm Just Not That Kind of Person' as an Excuse
We turn personality tests and strengths into excuses for staying small. 'I'm just not that kind of person' sounds authentic but kills growth. Here's how to stop bullshitting yourself.
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The Integrity Loop: Why Breaking Promises to Yourself Destroys Confidence
Your word is your bond, including the word you give yourself. Every broken promise to yourself erodes your confidence. Every kept promise builds it. This isn't productivity, it's character work.
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Stop Changing Your Tactics and Deal With Your Shit
You're not struggling with willpower. You're not lacking the right system. You're protecting the disease by treating the symptoms.
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The Art of Running Away: When Flight is Wisdom and When It's Weakness
How to tell when leaving is strategic wisdom versus fear-based avoidance. The uncomfortable truth about when running away is the courageous choice.
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The Resistance Diagnostic: Is This Teaching Me or Am I Just Running Away?
How to tell when resistance is teaching you versus when you're using your intelligence to avoid what needs to be done. The uncomfortable truth about sophisticated avoidance.
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The Optimization Trap: Authentic Self-Knowledge vs. Sophisticated Avoidance
How intelligent people use optimization as sophisticated avoidance, creating elaborate systems to avoid simple transformations. Includes the 5-question diagnostic framework.
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The Natural Rhythms vs. Discipline False Choice: Integration Not Avoidance
Most productivity advice forces you to fight your authentic rhythms, creating internal conflict and unsustainable systems. Here's the Natural Rhythms Integration Model that honors both authenticity and growth.
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The Independence Paradox: Why Freedom Requires More Structure, Not Less
True independence isn't the absence of structure—it's the mastery of structure. Here's why the most free people are often the most disciplined, and how to build systems that create authentic freedom.
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The Skinner's Law Productivity Revolution: Hacking Motivation Through Pain and Pleasure
Discover how B.F. Skinner's revolutionary insights into pain and pleasure can engineer unstoppable motivation. Learn the five-method framework that turns behavioral psychology into practical productivity mastery.
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The Validation Trap: Why Seeking Approval Kills Excellence
The most liberating realization: those people you're trying to win over aren't worth winning over. Energy spent seeking approval is energy not spent building excellence. Time to break free from the validation trap.
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The Information Trap: Why Knowledge Without Action Is Just Entertainment
You don't need another course. You need to start doing. The journey itself holds every lesson you need to learn. The internet gave us infinite information and infinite excuses.
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The Fear-Excellence Connection: Why Fear Is Excellence's Companion, Not Its Enemy
The self-help industry got fear completely wrong. Every person operating at excellence has learned to dance with fear, not defeat it. Fear isn't your enemy, it's your compass pointing toward what matters most.
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Leadership
The Freedom Paradox: Why Real Independence Is Terrifying
The social media mythology of entrepreneurship sells a comfortable lie: that anyone can bet on themselves and become a millionaire working a few hours per week. The reality is far more terrifying, and far more rewarding for those with the courage to accept it.
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The Mind Forge: Why Your Mental State Determines Your Reality
Your mind is either your forge or your prison. The Stoics knew what modern neuroscience confirms: mental state determines reality. Here's how to forge mental excellence through the Four Furnaces framework.
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Leadership
Phronesis: The Lost Art of Practical Wisdom
The ancient Greeks had a word for the leadership skill we desperately need today: phronesis. It's not about having all the answers, it's about acting wisely when you don't.
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Excellence
The FSD Paradox: Why We Resist the Future We Actually Want
I'm a motorsports enthusiast who loves manual transmissions. So why do I hate driving rental cars now? The rental car experience taught me something uncomfortable about human nature, and why we resist the very technologies that would improve our lives.
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Leadership
Andreia: Courage in the Age of Fear
The Greeks had a word for the kind of courage we desperately need today: andreia. It's not about being fearless, it's about being fear-full and acting anyway.
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Breaking Through: How Resistance Shapes Your Transformation
Every breakthrough begins with a breakdown. Resistance isn't blocking your transformation, it's forging it.
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The Long Way Back
The mountain had other plans. What started as a simple run became a journey back to who I've always been—buried under survival, responsibility, and the slow drift of adulthood.
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Stop Chasing Balance. Start Chasing the Edge.
Everyone wants greatness until they realize what it demands. The edge isn't found in comfort, it's in the obsession, discipline, and relentless focus that transforms potential into reality.
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Excellence
The Return Is the Resistance
It's not about the run or the miles. It's about returning to the place where your resolve gets sharpened, your personal forge where growth happens through resistance.
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Leadership
The Fire That Forges Me
Pain is not punishment. It's preparation. Whether you're a fighter or a leader, how you respond to resistance defines your growth and impact on others.
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The Discipline of Arete: Trust the Work, Not the Moment
Frustration comes when we judge ourselves by a single moment. But true growth—true excellence—comes from trusting the work, not the moment.
Leadership
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Climbing Through: Leadership Forged in the Struggle
Most teams are trained to dodge the mess—great leaders dive in. True leadership is built in the climb, not at the summit.
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Excellence
The Reset Walk: Train for Gratitude Before the Grind Breaks You
Most people wait for struggle to humble them. The best train for it. The Reset Walk is a simple practice to build resilience before stress takes over.
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If AI Isn't Making You Uncomfortable, You're Not Using It Enough
The biggest AI problem right now? A lack of imagination. The chatbot era was training wheels—it's time to take them off. If AI isn't rewiring how you think, you're not using it enough.
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You're More Ready Than You Think: How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a New Software Engineer
Struggling with imposter syndrome as a new software engineer? Learn why you're more ready than you think, and how to build confidence through action and learning.
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Revitalizing Legacy Code: Five Steps to Successful Refactoring
Master the art of legacy code refactoring with a practical five-step approach that helps you modernize your codebase while maintaining stability and reliability.
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Balance is a Great Way to Be Mediocre
Explore why the pursuit of perfect balance might be holding you back, and learn how embracing strategic imbalance can lead to extraordinary results.
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Fulfill Your Destiny by Performing Under Pressure
Discover how to harness pressure as a catalyst for growth and achievement, turning challenging situations into opportunities for success.
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Ten Biographies Worth Reading
Explore a curated selection of biographies that provide powerful lessons in leadership, resilience, and success through the lives of remarkable individuals.
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Excellence
Push Mind Past Body Reality
Discover how to train your mind to overcome physical barriers and unlock your true potential through mental conditioning.
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Pushing Too Hard Too Early
Understand the risks of pushing too hard too early, and discover how to pace yourself for long-term success.
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What Are You Willing to Sacrifice to Get an Edge?
Discover how strategic sacrifices can give you the edge you need to excel in your personal and professional life.
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Mind Stops Before the Body Does
Discover why your mind often gives up before your body does, and how to overcome these mental barriers to achieve more.
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Embracing the Suck
Discover how accepting and working through challenging situations can lead to significant personal and professional growth.
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Seeking Courage
I struggle with what level of disclosure to give in public forums, because vulnerability is a hard. I don't care for writing and know a path to getting better at something is to do a lot of it. At least that is the excuse I hide behind when it comes to sharing more freely. A while back during a long period of seeking self awareness it became apparent that I didn't really believe in myself very much. Other people believe in me. I believe I am able to get results, but I haven't been able to really believe in me. I was smacked in the face on this topic looking in the mirror and seeing myself over 250 pounds and utterly out of shape and control.
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Top 10 Ways To Become More Resilient
Resilience refers to the ability of a person to effectively cope with and recover from adversity or stress. This concept has been studied in psychology and neuroscience, and various strategies and techniques have been developed to build resilience, such as mindfulness, cognitive reframing, and social support. Building resilience can help individuals better handle life's greatest challenges and maintain their mental and emotional well-being. Here are ten ways to increase your resiliency.
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The Effects of Shifting or Resetting on Society
If you are listening. A lot of people are talking about a "new norm", a "reset" or a "shift". Largely this discussion is around economics and growing concerns of debt. In reality it is about a lot more than that.
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