Recommended Books
Books that have shaped how I think about excellence, leadership, and the craft of building things that matter. Referenced across my writing, tested against real practice.
Curated Collections
Deep-dive reading lists organized by theme, each with editorial commentary on why these books matter.
Best Books on Stoic Philosophy
12 booksCurated Stoic philosophy reading list from a practitioner, not an academic. Books on Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, Epictetus, and modern Stoic practice.



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Best Books on Practical Wisdom & Decision-Making
13 booksBooks on judgment, mental models, and strategic thinking. A curated list for practitioners who want to make better decisions under uncertainty.



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Best Books on Leadership Character
13 booksBooks on principled leadership, character development, and leading by example. Curated for leaders who know tactics without character is empty.



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Best Books on Discipline & Mastery
15 booksBooks on deliberate practice, self-discipline, and expertise building. A curated list for those committed to the long road of craft development.



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Best Books on Human Flourishing
13 booksBooks on living well, meaning, purpose, and building a good life. A curated list grounded in the ancient pursuit of eudaimonia.



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Most Referenced
The books that keep showing up across my writing. Referenced the most because they've influenced my thinking the most.

Discourses and Selected Writings
by Epictetus
The former slave turned philosopher understood freedom at its most fundamental level. Epictetus teaches that the only real imprisonment is knowing what's right and refusing to act on it. His Discourses are the blueprint for moral courage in speech and action.

Radical Candor
by Kim Scott
Scott's framework for caring personally while challenging directly is the modern workplace application of ancient truth-telling. The book maps where most people fall on the honesty spectrum and why ruinous empathy destroys teams faster than obnoxious aggression.

Fearless Speech
by Michel Foucault
Foucault's 1983 Berkeley lectures trace parrhesia from Athenian democracy through Stoic philosophy. This is the definitive modern treatment of fearless speech as philosophical practice, revealing how truth-telling shapes both the speaker and the society that receives it.

The Courage to Be Disliked
by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
Through Adlerian psychology presented as a Socratic dialogue, this book dismantles the approval-seeking that keeps people silent. The core argument, that freedom requires the courage to be disliked, is the modern psychological foundation beneath the ancient practice of parrhesia.

Algorithms to Live By
by Brian Christian and Tom Griffiths
Computer science applied to human decision-making. The optimal stopping problem and explore/exploit trade-off provide mathematical backing for why calibrating decision effort to decision stakes produces better outcomes than uniform deliberation.

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
by Carol S. Dweck
Dweck's research on fixed versus growth mindset explains why some people treat past achievements as proof of permanent talent while others see them as foundations for continued development. Essential reading for escaping the glory days trap.

Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging
by Sebastian Junger
NYT bestseller exploring why modern society's emphasis on self-sufficiency is making us miserable. Junger shows that humans evolved to need tight-knit groups and that our epidemic of loneliness stems from abandoning tribal connection for strategic isolation.

Turning Pro
by Steven Pressfield
Pressfield's overlooked gem about the identity shift that changes everything. The amateur asks what to do. The professional has already decided who they are. The book is about that moment of turning, when identity crystallizes and action becomes obvious.

Endure: Mind, Body, and the Curiously Elastic Limits of Human Performance
by Alex Hutchinson
Scientific exploration of human limits reveals that our capacity expands through exposure to difficulty, not protection from it. The brain's governor can only be recalibrated through struggle.

Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds
by David Goggins
Goggins embodies the article's thesis in extreme form. His journey from 300 pounds to Navy SEAL to ultramarathon runner demonstrates what happens when you refuse to accept belief-imposed limits. Raw proof that the ceiling is painted on.

Relentless: From Good to Great to Unstoppable
by Tim S. Grover
Michael Jordan's trainer reveals the psychology of elite performers and the relentless mindset that separates good from unstoppable. The cleaners, closers, and coolers framework illuminates what drives exceptional achievement.

The Coddling of the American Mind
by Greg Lukianoff & Jonathan Haidt
How good intentions and bad ideas are setting up a generation for failure. Addresses victim culture, safetyism, and the loss of antifragility in modern society. The perfect modern companion to ancient Stoic wisdom on building resilience through difficulty.

Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity
by Kim Scott
Scott's framework for caring personally while challenging directly. Ruinous empathy (high care, low challenge) and obnoxious aggression (high challenge, low care) both fail. Only radical candor - both together - builds teams.

Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience
by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Foundational research on flow states showing that happiness emerges from absorption in meaningful challenge, not from pursuing the feeling itself. Empirical evidence for ancient wisdom about engagement over hedonic pursuit.
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