Thoughts & Insights

Exploring leadership, technology, and personal growth

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I'm Derek Neighbors, a technology leader, mentor, and community builder passionate about creating high-performing teams and innovative products.

Here you'll find my thoughts on software development, leadership, personal growth, and building strong communities. I share insights from my experiences as a serial entrepreneur, software executive, and angel investor.

Whether you're interested in technology trends, team dynamics, or personal development, I hope you'll find something valuable to take away from these posts. Feel free to reach out if you have thoughts to share.

The Silent Burden: Fueling Leadership's Lonely Flame

The Silent Burden: Fueling Leadership's Lonely Flame

Leadership , Business , Growth

In the quiet hours when decisions weigh heaviest, leadership can feel like a solitary journey. But it's in these moments that both leaders and their teams can transform pressure into power. Here's how to keep the flame alive.

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The Faux-Aligned Manipulator: When Theater Replaces Execution

The Faux-Aligned Manipulator: When Theater Replaces Execution

Leadership , Business , Growth

They're relentlessly positive. They say yes to everything. They talk about collaboration constantly. But underneath the performance, real execution never happens.

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Guard the Circle: Why Leaders Must Invite Dissent to Stay Effective

Guard the Circle: Why Leaders Must Invite Dissent to Stay Effective

Leadership , Business , Growth

In fast-moving tech cultures, dissent feels like friction. And friction feels like delay. But a team that agrees too easily is already halfway to failure.

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😵 When ActiveRecord::Relation Fails You (and Your Test Isn't Broken... Until It Is)

😵 When ActiveRecord::Relation Fails You (and Your Test Isn't Broken... Until It Is)

Tech , Code

Your test looks fine. The records match. But sometimes it passes, sometimes it fails. Uncover the hidden gotchas of comparing ActiveRecord Relations in Rails tests.

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Protect Your Spark: Beat the Idea Assassins

Protect Your Spark: Beat the Idea Assassins

Leadership , Business , Growth

Your best ideas are vulnerable to creativity hit jobs. Learn to guard your spark, select the right team, and keep innovation flowing despite the critics.

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